Sunday, September 14, 2014

Talking About Forgiveness in Saint James

Today I was able to go back to a church that Ive called my home for the last few years.  Was wonderful! Well here are a couple of photos, a video recording of the sermon and my notes.  I hope you enjoy,  Take care !!!









Ever loving God,
Show us the way,
Show us your power to do
the unimaginable
bring us into the space
of Eternal love and forgiveness 

Good morning, it is a joy and a privilege to be here with you, back in Monterey and in St. James, this is a place I call home, and it is absolutely wonderful, to be back with you after so long.

I would like to open up with the alternative old test reading.  This reading comes out of Genesis, genesis 50: 15-21.   

I would like to touch on some questions today, what does it mean to forgive, where does that power come from, and where can it take us? 

So as some of you might know I am just getting back from working in South Africa.  More specifically A small town in eastern part of the country called Grahamstown where I was working in a school at a monastery.  Grahamstown is really like most small towns in the states, it reminds me a bit of Hollister and Gonzales all wrapped up in one.  Big farming communities, small schools with lots of students,  large school with small amounts students, depending on what side of the economic spectrum you and your family fall on. 

South Africa really has the same dichotomies as the US, Rich and poor, black and white, have and have not, big city and small town.  Right and wrong, wait did I just say right and wrong.  Lets pause here for a moment and talk about this dichotomy of right and wrong. 

Throughout todays old test. readings we hear a story about the Israelites, who were being delivered, by the hand of God, out of Egypt, and away from Egyptians.  Now, I bet you if you asked the Egyptians, they woulda said they was right, holding the Israelites captive in Egypt.
 Check this out, now two things were happening in the story, one the isrealites realized whose side, God was on.  I don’t know about yall , but my god, is a just God, and what does the bible tell us in romans chapter 8? If god is for us, then who can be against us!? The Israelites believed this.  They knew that their freedom was imminent, and that God supported their cause so they raced, towards the red sea. 

Now the second thing that was happening, as everyone was racing towards the red sea.  You member how we just said that if god is for us than who can be against us? Well, the Egyptians realized this too, they might have realized just a little too late.  By the time they caught on, they were standing on dry land, in the middle of the red sea surrounded by water, uh oh.

But my point is how do we move from being right to wrong, or from being wrong to being right?  That is, Without winding up in the middle of the red sea.

  Well lets continue through our readings today.  As weve read, our alternative old testament reading is out of genesis, and is about forgiveness.  A space, where, we have no control over, a space where, we just bring our baggage and our burdens and we hope to have them healed.   
The story out of genesis talks about the aftermath of Jacobs death in Egypt, the origins of the whole exodus story and Joseph, who was Jacobs son and joesphs brothers. 


Joshephs brothers who were told by their father, upon his death, to approach Josheph, and to beg forgiveness for their past crimes against him.  Now Joeseph, he could have scoffed at his brothers and said uh you member that one time when, but he didn’t do that.  He said Even though you intended to do harm to me, God, intended it for good. 

So again I ask the question, how do we move from being right to being wrong or from being wrong to being right.  And joseph teaches us, that persecution, it doesn’t last.  Even though his brother intended to do him harm, God used it for good.  God used it, to empower joseph, and to put him in a position of power.  From which joseph, was then able to glorified god.

Joeseph, shows us how God works, through the space of forgiveness.  Joeseph opened up a lot of space, for the holy spirit, to come in, and to help people forgive, and to bring he and his brothers back under one accord, which is really where we hope forgiveness leads us to, into the land of reconciliation. 

But what did it take?  It took humility. joespehs brothers came to him begging for forgiveness, saying we come to you as your slaves, as people who are not deserving of forgiveness.  It also took humility for josheph not to lash out, smack them upside the head when they weren’t looking, forget yall. No he showed humility, and took them in and not only did he take his brothers in, he said and I will provide for your children.

We all have a long way to go to understand forgiveness.  and when I say long , I! mean! A! long! Way to go!

 This upcoming year starting in October, I will be back in South Africa, in Capetown, big city, working with the institute for the healing of memories. This is an institute built around trying to understand forgiveness and healing and reconciliation, which, is the processes we all go through.

  South Africa, like the Us, has a long history of issues around race. Violence and persecution, hatred and just a lack of care for our fellow humans.  We have a long way to go, world wide to get a handle on this forgiveness thing.  How do we go about forgiving and healing and reconciling when we all have painful memories.  How do we bring the story of Joseph and his brothers to life? Where do we even begin? 

I think we can start like joesphs brothers did, they listened, to a person who was more wise than they, in their case it was their father, in my case and I think in most of our cases, we find that supreme wisdom comes from the women that govern our lives. My mother comes to my mind. 

But They listened, and payed attention to the story that they had been writing with their actions, and they acknowledged the fluidity, of what it means to be right and wrong.  That they thought they were right, until they were shown, to be doing wrong.  And then they didn’t hold onto their wrongness, they stepped, into the space of forgiveness, and allowed the holy spirit to wash them clean, and to reconcile their relationship with their brother.  

The institute focuses on story telling which works hand in glove with listening, working towards forgiveness and reconciliation.  All peoples, at one time or another have had difficulties being heard,  when youre not heard, youre not payed attentioned to, you feel marginalized.

  sharing stories on open ears, and if you, like me, have ever experienced that sharing first hand. And that sacred space for forgiveness flung wide open, then you, like me, know the restorative power that the simple act of sharing  and listening has.  And that is what I hope, not only as a missionary, but as a person and a witness to Gods forgiveness, to get in contact with. Its what Joseph and his brothers did. Shared and talked with one another.   And through that, they were healed.

Forgiveness, its the first, second, and the third step to reconciliation.  Reconciliation, bringing things back together under one accord.  Our gospel reading today out of Mathew illustrates this repetition beautifully.  

Peter comes to Jesus and asks him, if another member of the church sins against me, how often should I forgive? I feel like Peter is saying, jesus, I know it’s the right thing for me to do, to forgive, but hey, Ive got a limit.  Im only going to forgive 1,2,3…seven times, and that’s it.  But Jesus goes mmm, Peter don’t put a limit on your forgiveness, ha forgive seven times, forgive seventy seven times.  Don’t stop forgiving, don’t stop forgiving, take that forgivness we all have been given by the grace of god and pass it on continually.

Jesus tells peter a story, about a slave and his master.  The slave couldn’t afford to pay the master back.  Something like 10 thousand talents, Im not sure what the exchange rate between talents and dollars is, but its way more than what he had. So the master forgave his servant of his debt completely, I wish someone would forgive my student loans like that, But what did the servent do?  He took that forgivness, and He went and searched out someone who owed him, 100 denari  and jesus said the servant went and grabbed him by the throat, straight up put him in a choke hold trying to get his money back. 

The master found out about this, this shakedown and was like the nerve of this guy, I just forgave his entire debt and then he goes and beats someone up trying his money back. So the master took his servant and through him in jail where he was tortured until he could pay off his debt. 

And jesus says, so my heavenly father will do to every one of you, if you don’t forgive your brother and sister from your heart. 

So we started our time here together asking the questions what does it mean to forgive, where does that power come from, and where can it take us. 

We acknowledge the fluidity of wrong and right.  What once was wrong may now be right, and what once was right may now be wrong.  We know that this flux or this change happens in the space of forgiveness.  And we are only able to forgive, because we all have been forgiven.  And that forgiveness will take us into a space of reconciliation. 


If we make the sign of the cross and think about reconciliation.  First we move up and down, reconciling ourselves with God and then we move from side to side, reconciling ourselves with each other.  First, reconcile with God, and then use that spirit that God gives us, to reconcile with everyone else. 

Amen


















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